FOR NEW CONNECTION

COMING SOON

Most women don’t fall into patriarchal sex suddenly.
They slide into it — early, subtly, and often in the name of chemistry.

It happens when attraction moves faster than your body can integrate.

When sex begins before your nervous system has oriented to safety.

When you start accommodating, anticipating, or overriding yourself — long before you realise it.

This guide is for women who want new relationships to actually be new — not a replay of old dynamics with a different person.

Beyond Patriarchal Sex for New Relationships is a somatic guide to staying anchored in yourself while connection builds. It teaches you how to recognise the early signs of self-override, how to feel when chemistry is pulling you ahead of your body, and how to let intimacy unfold without rushing into sex that costs you later.

When you stay oriented to yourself from the beginning:

• sex becomes nourishing instead of destabilising
• desire doesn’t require endurance
• relationships deepen cleanly — or end cleanly

This guide is for you if you’re dating, opening to new connection, or starting something that matters — and you want intimacy that feels grounded, honest, and embodied from the start. 

FOR EXISTING RELATIONSHIP

COMING SOON

Patriarchal sex in long-term relationships rarely looks dramatic.

It looks normal.

It shows up as accommodating timing. Prioritising harmony.

Having sex your body hasn’t fully said yes to — and calling it love.

Over time, many women don’t lose desire.
They lose access to themselves during intimacy.

This guide is for women in ongoing relationships who sense that something in sex has gone quiet, numb, or effortful — even when the relationship itself is loving.

Beyond Patriarchal Sex for Existing Relationships is a somatic re-orientation back to your body within partnership. It helps you recognise where you’ve learned to override yourself, how mis-attunement becomes routine, and how to restore bodily sovereignty without blame, pressure, or confrontation.

This is not about fixing your partner.
It’s not about forcing change.
It’s about ending self-abandonment in intimacy.

When women return their bodies to themselves:

• sex becomes simpler
• resentment softens
• desire returns — or clarity arrives
• intimacy becomes honest again

This guide is for you if you want sex that feels present, mutual, and alive — without sacrificing yourself to keep the relationship intact.